Frightening thought sometimes to ask that of someone else. I know how to define myself, and I know what some people would say, which I know already. But somehow it hurts more hearing it from someone else. They say the truth hurts, and even if you are not hiding behind a wall or curtain to your faults, it still hurts when someone looks behind and sees what you see. Worse yet is when they don’t see what is behind theirs.